Is Nigeria That Bad?


Amidst the chaos and challenges of everyday life in Nigeria, I've experienced some remarkable acts of kindness that restored my faith in humanity.


*Taxi Ride from Bwari to Berger*

I shared a taxi with four others, agreeing on N250 each. When I handed the driver N1,000, he claimed he had no change. Despite my earlier warning, he let me go without paying, trusting my honesty.


*Aunt's Thoughtful Gesture*

Arriving late at my aunt's Lagos home, I planned to buy Agbalumo. But the shopkeeper laughed, saying my aunt had already bought half a basket. Witnessing her kindness warmed my heart.


*ATM Queue Surprise*

A woman at the ATM needed help, and a man assisted her. Astonishingly, he returned to his place in line without withdrawing his own money. The crowd was shocked, but he simply smiled.


*Tricycle Rider's Integrity*

Traveling from Agric (Ikorodu, Lagos), I gave the rider N100, thinking it was the fare. He chased after me, returning N50 in change. When I offered it back, he smiled, revealing he was Igbo, not Hausa as I'd assumed.


These stories, three of which unfolded in Lagos, remind me that kindness and honesty still exist in Nigeria. Amidst the struggles, it's essential to share these uplifting experiences.


Let's celebrate the unsung heroes and foster a culture of kindness, one act at a time.

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